The third way

The world is built around our likes and dislikes- it is in the game we play around here. - The play get us to spend all our energy liking and disliking. Wanting others to se and preferable admire our opinions! Me -I stopped comparing, because whether I dislike or like something, it is always "me" disliking it or liking it, the thing I like or dislike is just "the thing i like or dislike", not good nor bad, not likable nor dislikable. So, I don't compare anymore, it is what it is at the time it is, and that is it.. Whatever the other person is liking or disliking is what the other person is liking or disliking, that has nothing to do with me or the things that person is liking or disliking..

Realize that you do nothing, and yet you do everything. There is no wrong answer. There is no wrong outcome. There is no set date for your success or destruction. There is no massive plot against you. There is no luck. There is no fate. There is nothing, unless you make it so.


http://www.philosophie.uni-mainz.de/Dateien/beingnoone2.pdf