Boomerang

Like a boomerang, you have sent the message out that you feels like this or that, let us say you feel  unloved. You have played the part, and spoken the language of the unloved person. You have consistently reacted to other from that belief about yourself, interpreting others actions as unloving. Whether other’s actions have been objectively unloving makes no difference to your story. The interpretation was happening in your mind. The boomerang of, “I’m unloved” came right back to you. When we believe we are deficient at the core, there is an unconscious drive within us to attract people and situations that confirm that story. We repeat the same pattern in our relationships. We continually interpret the actions of others according to that story. We may even unconsciously sabotage relationships. In these ways, we solidify the story over and over, until that deficient self is seen through.

See if you can find the unlovable person and remember that- the old script of, “I’m an unlovable person” don not have to be operating. Once that story is seen to be unfindable, love is seen to be our true nature. We naturally stop throwing the boomerang out because the story of deficiency is absent. Others cannot return what we no longer throw out to them!