Timing

Time is created as we experience it,- there is no time. It's all happening now. It's just one big eternal-now. Nothingness is creating the actual "time" that we are experiencing in a linear fashion. When we intensely want to do something now, and it is easily possible to do it, no problem. We just do it.
 But if we intensely want to do something now, and it is not possible to do it now, we are then at a critical decision-junction. We can choose to interpret this as - I am not getting what I want. Or, we can choose to interpet this as - I always get what I want. If it's not available now, then there must be an excellent reason for this. Which of these choices we make is critical in determining the outcome, as this choice is equivalent to selecting a belief, and we then experience the outcome aligned with that belief. If you choose to interpret the situation as: "I am not getting what I want.", 
then, sure enough, you will continue to not get what you want.

My personal preference is letting life guide me. Life always comes up with things 100 times better than I could imagine! If you look back on your life of experience, you might have the same conclusion, and even though it was maddening that you didn't get what you wanted at the time, you actually ended up in a much better position.